Common Mistakes Made in Relationships

Tips for DatingBeing a matchmaker in Naples, FL means Janine has helped many people who have been in other long-term relationships get back in the dating world. Over time, we’ve learned a lot about why relationships didn’t work out in the past, and for that we have a few common mistakes we see made in relationships every day.

Lack of communication

Relationships aren’t always easy, and in those moments we have to remember to communicate. From big arguments to little pet peeves, it’s helpful to both parties to talk out our issues and address them before they snowball into an issue that cannot be resolved.

Taking your partner for granted

Waking up to a warm cup of coffee on the counter might be a part of your everyday routine, and it’s always essential to appreciate those little things your partner does for you. An “I love you” or “thank you” can go a long way to showing your significant other that you care about them and notice how well they treat you.

Not putting in the effort to be romantic

Between having careers, raising kids, and various other life changes, we can often let romance fall to the wayside. Keeping this flame alive is an important aspect of any relationship, and though dating can be fun, it is hard work and involves two equal parties putting in the time to be with each other.

Not taking time to yourself/away from each other

Everything in life is about balance. Sure, being in love is wonderful, but taking even a few hours a week to do something alone can make a huge difference in your relationship. Avoid becoming too dependent on one another and risk the chance of losing your independency.

Expecting your partner to be perfect or change for you

You might have a vision of your perfect spouse, but more often than not, the person you love doesn’t meet every single expectation. We are all unique to each other and what we often most need to remember is that even if there are aspects of people we don’t necessarily enjoy, it has created the person we love and care for most.

With more questions about how our Naples, FL matchmaker, Janine, can help you meet the love of your life and avoid these mistakes, call us today at (855) 526-2824.

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